-  You are humble and willing to meet the needs of others. 
 
-   to see him at work  - you refrain from something you have long wanted to do 
 
-   be him  - you want to get away from the needs of everyday life 
 
-   talk to him  - you put an impenetrable barrier against others 
 
-   be served by a bartender  - you need support and good advice. 
 
                